When I opened it to write, I found this inscription (which I had forgotten was there).
You are in a fair way to create a whole nation of lunatics. -WaltI'm fairly certain it was used out of context...but, the crux is this - I had just a relationship, which for me had been purely sexual, but for him (15 years my senior) was obviously much more.
I wrote this untitled poem beneath the words...
Left behind
in the dust
I can write my name
draw flowers and hearts
stick figures holding hands
which will collect more dust
where I can write my epic tale
of death
of lust for life
of need for love
a craving for the tragedy
of possibility
held within a first kiss
the last touch
from one who was almost a lover
but could not sustain.
It was a phase in my life where I ate men like a carnivore who enjoyed the kill much more than the meal. I was young and felt jilted by a former, long-term boyfriend. It wasn't like I was being intentionally vengeful. But, I certainly wasn't worried about anyone's feelings. Not even my own, really. I had spent so many years being "good" and monogamous...and bored...in a relationship with a man who wanted sex less than a stereotypical unhappy middle-aged housewife. It was degrading and disappointing. And I was young enough and insecure enough to think it was my fault.
When I finally got out there, I kind of lost my head...I had several one-night stands (and I never called back in the morning like I said I would). There was a certain air of freedom and power in the whole experience.
Eventually, I tired of it. I looked high and low for someone I really liked and from whom I wanted more than sex.
I stopped looking.
And, as one would expect. That's when I found it.
Love is like a poem. When you search for the right words, they usually do not come. Language is slippery and wet...it doesn't come when you want it to; you have to coax, caress, undress, and let it take you over. A good poem, like a good love, is intoxicating, lustful - it makes you light-headed, weak in the knees, and warm in all the right areas.
I remember the first night I met my husband (face to face). I'd already been talking to him for weeks, so I knew we had things in common, something to talk about. But it was one of those moments (the unreal movie kind) when I made eye-contact, saw his eyes...those blue, blue, intense eyes and literally became weak. Not in the "oh wow he's hot" way. More like the "do you have a room available right now" way. It was that intense. And while I will admit I can be easy (under the correct circumstances), I tend to present as stand-offish, even shy. I couldn't shut up that first night. Nervous talking. And then the asshole left me with a hug. Totally reserved, and controlled...he hugged me goodnight.
Seriously?
Yes...he was that good. Knew exactly what he was doing.
I could hardly wait to get him in the sack on the second date...my mental verbiage building to a crescendo of "JUST FUCKING GIVE IT TO ME ALREADY!"
Brilliant.
He still does that. Damn him.
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