On "Ask Me Anything" a reader inquires about my willingness to masturbate in front of my husband or watch him masturbate in front of me.
Interestingly, this is a topic that has come up often in the L.L. home.
Mr. LL would love to watch - is totally intrigued by how I go about pleasuring myself. He sees and hears just about as much as you do, dear readers. I'm not much of an exhibitionist in that regard. In fact, for some odd reason, it makes me downright uncomfortable. It seems so personal. But, then, I understand - the intimacy of it...seems I should be willing to let my lover/best-friend/husband see that part of my sexuality, right? I guess I feel like I'm on display - which makes me feel self-conscious...no matter how silly that is.
I've watched him do it. I've asked him to. It's interesting to see someone else take care of their own needs because you can learn more about how to please them yourself.
Ahhhh...maybe someday I'll relent.
But, for now - I masturbate in private. Much to the chagrin of Mr. LL.
I'm also completely aware of how hot it is to watch a chick do her thing. When I watch porn, it's often to watch women masturbating. Maybe that's weird, but I think it also plays into the fact that I know exactly what they are doing and how they are feeling - and so my body reacts similarly when I see it.
Here's a great site for your female masturbation viewing pleasure - http://www.ifeelmyself.com/public/femalemasturbation.htm
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